Show Up: Words from my fav blogger Hannah B.

You deserve someone who commits to you, E. You deserve someone who desires you, who makes you feel like the center of their universe. You deserve a love that keeps growing and expanding. That kind of love must be self-sacrificing or it will never fully become all it was intended to be. You deserve someone who wants to learn your anthems and wants to hear your crazy laugh. You deserve someone who puts you first and who wrestles through the muds of transition with you. You are not someone's second choice. You are not second best. You are worth the fight.
It's okay if you are so afraid to walk away. I get that. You don't know what will happen next and there is good and healthy fear of the unknown. But I could never tell my best friend to stay in a relationship where she's accepted less than the best. Don't mistake that last sentence as "perfection." You will never find the perfect person. Even then ones who are supposedly "perfect" come flying at you with all their crazy mess. But I want you, and anyone else I love, to find someone who doesn't quit fighting.  That doesn't mean there won't be monumental fights. When we sign up to be with someone, there is no contract of perfection that you both sign. There are flaws and a chance to communicate. That relationship will only become what it's meant to become if two people keep showing up though.